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The Problem With a Personal Witness

December 13, 2017 by Kate Rogers in Self, Spirituality

But these things are just so… internal. When it comes to sharing, they’re frustratingly all mine.

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December 13, 2017 /Kate Rogers
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Self, Spirituality

Paying the Price

October 25, 2014 by Kate Rogers in Spirituality

Today, my testimony is my most precious possession. I would not be living a wholehearted life without it, and things in the day-to-day would be incredibly different.

My testimony is only so valuable to me now because I earned it.

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October 25, 2014 /Kate Rogers
God, Jesus Christ, LDS, LDS Lessons, MavenYou, Mormon, paying the price, personal improvement, Savior, spirituality, Testimony
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